An uncontested divorce is for couples who agree on all major issues, including the division of assets and debts, spousal maintenance (alimony), and, if applicable, child custody and support. It is the fastest, most cost-effective, and least stressful way to get divorced.

• How it works: Both parties, with the help of their lawyers, draft a Marital Settlement Agreement that details all aspects of the divorce. Once the agreement is signed, it is submitted to the court for approval. The process is streamlined, minimizing court appearances and conflict.

• Best for: Couples who have good communication and a high level of trust. This path allows you to remain in control of your destiny, not a judge.

Divorce mediation is a highly effective alternative to traditional litigation. It is a negotiation process where a neutral third-party, the mediator, helps both parties find common ground and reach a mutually agreeable settlement.

• How it works: You and your spouse, along with your respective attorneys, meet with a trained mediator. The mediator doesn't make decisions for you but facilitates communication, ensures a balanced discussion, and helps you explore creative solutions. This process can be used to resolve all or just some of your outstanding issues.

• Best for: Couples who want to avoid the courtroom but need a structured, professional setting to work through disagreements on certain issues. This path is confidential and keeps decision-making power in your hands.

Collaborative divorce is a unique, out-of-court process that involves a team of professionals dedicated to helping you reach a resolution. In addition to your specially trained collaborative lawyers, the team may include a financial specialist and a divorce coach.

• How it works: All parties sign a "Participation Agreement" to commit to resolving all issues without going to court. The entire team works together in a series of meetings to identify your goals and interests, not just legal positions. This process is designed to foster respect, preserve relationships, and create lasting, mutually beneficial agreements. If the process fails and you end up in court, both attorneys and the rest of the team are disqualified, which incentivizes everyone to reach a settlement.

• Best for: Couples with complex finances or parenting issues who prioritize open communication and want to protect their family relationships, especially for the sake of their children.

Divorce litigation is the traditional, contested process where a judge makes the final decisions on all unresolved issues. If negotiations, mediation, and collaborative law fail, this is the default path.

• How it works: The process is adversarial. Your attorney will file motions, conduct discovery, and present your case in court through evidence and witness testimony. A judge will hear arguments from both sides and issue a binding order on property division, maintenance, and parental responsibilities.

• Best for: Situations involving high conflict, domestic violence, or when a spouse is unwilling to negotiate fairly or provide full financial disclosure. Litigation provides a structured legal framework to protect your rights when other methods are not viable.